Another related sign is checking the relationship status obsessively. A way to run away from them (to something he already knows how to handle) instead of dealing with them. He doesnt call or text, and i dont get to see him everyday. Since he knows I wont like it, he goes to visit her behind my back. After reading the article, it made me realize to really let go of that person. Then he plays mind games, along with control and threats (Ill never text you again). For example, they might text more because they wonder where you are. Everything is going great for you now and your relationship is good. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now.. we fight constantly. I dont have a secret formula obviously, I can only tell you what I would do if I were you, and that is trying the 60-day no contact. This is the problem with the world, we tell women to put up with this type of rubbish which means men think that they can treat us this way. I know and understand that I messed up. It can be tough to accept the thought, he doesnt love me anymore. However, you can begin the process of coping when he says he doesnt love you when you can identify its the truth. Ive done almost everything I can do. I knew he loved me and I knew I loved him dearly. This time round I had a more serious h2h talk with the mention of thinking of breaking up. Hes not ur typical man who goes out loads, hes never had a one night stand and I was the 5th girl hes ever been with sexually. This alarmed me. This is arguably one of the most painful signs he doesn't love you anymore. After a few months are closeness did begin to get a bit heavy and we both recognised this and agreed to try to put some space between us. That may help you look at your relationship and decide if you want to stay or leave. I just need some type of guidance to know how to deal with this , what to do , and am i a fool to keep fighting for him when he shes still in the picture and VERY much relevant. He ignored me twice so then i stopped texting for 2+ weeks then reached out again and we texted for over an hour. He gets irritated even by the little things you do. But you knowIm so confused, because as I said, our relationship has been beautiful. Hes even said he loves and cares about me. Everything was great and we moved in together and then it all went downhill. He was so sweet and great for the first 2 months and now hes not exactly that same person anymore. I hope this helps and I hope you feel better soon. I met my boyfriend online while I was on vacations, I stayed there for 2 months and he lived like 3 hours from where I used to lived, at the beginning he was the one that wanted all the attention because I was ignoring him, later tables turn, he came and visited me for a few times we slept together and after that he said that he loved me, we werent going to be seeing each other again for a while because I had to get back, but he wanted to keep the long distance thing even if I told him that it wasnt a good idea. Hi, This may be due to the fact that he doesnt pay enough attention to what you are feeling or if he has lost interest in spending time with you. I tried to appologize but he dint want to hear it,so the whole of september we ignored each other. He told me that he would want to marry me, one fine day. Of course, it's a disappointment when your partner isn't interested in sex when you are .